Within each of us lies an inner caretaker, a part that has taken on the immense responsibility of holding everything together during times of chaos and uncertainty. This aspect of yourself emerged as a protective mechanism, often in response to challenging circumstances or emotional upheaval. It is the voice that urges you to stay strong,...
Your body is a remarkable system, intricately designed to protect you and communicate your needs. At the core of this system lies your boundaries—those invisible lines that define what feels safe and what feels threatening. Boundaries are not just about saying “yes” or “no” to others; they are deeply rooted in your physical sensations, emotions,...
Trauma can leave an indelible mark on our bodies and minds, creating patterns that often feel inescapable. When you experience trauma, your body may respond in ways that seem automatic or instinctual, often rooted in a desire to protect you from further harm. These patterns can manifest as tension, anxiety, or even physical pain, and...
When you think about trauma, it can often feel like a single event that disrupts your life. However, trauma is more complex than that; it unfolds over time, creating a timeline that can stretch across days, months, or even years. Understanding this timeline is crucial for your healing journey. Trauma doesn’t just reside in the...
In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to fall into the trap of wanting to fix things. When we experience discomfort, whether emotional or physical, our instinct often drives us to seek immediate solutions. We may find ourselves searching for quick fixes, whether that means pushing through pain, distracting ourselves, or even numbing our feelings. However,...
Your nervous system is a complex network that plays a crucial role in how you experience the world. It governs your responses to stress, shapes your emotional landscape, and influences your overall well-being. When your nervous system is dysregulated, it can feel as though you are constantly on high alert or, conversely, completely shut down....
In the aftermath of trauma, it’s common to feel an overwhelming urge to keep moving, both physically and emotionally. This pace, often referred to as the “trauma pace,” can manifest as a relentless drive to stay busy, to distract yourself from the pain, or to avoid confronting the feelings that arise. You might find yourself...
In today’s world, the concept of healing has taken on a new dimension, often intertwined with social media and public narratives. Performative healing refers to the phenomenon where individuals feel compelled to showcase their healing journeys for validation or approval from others. This pressure can manifest in various ways, from sharing personal stories online to...
When we think about trauma, it’s easy to envision it as a straight line—a beginning, a middle, and an end. However, trauma often unfolds in a spiral, where healing is not a linear progression but rather a journey that loops back on itself. You may find yourself revisiting certain feelings or memories, sometimes feeling as...
In our fast-paced world, the urge to “fix” ourselves can feel overwhelming, especially when navigating the complexities of trauma. This mentality often stems from a deep-seated belief that something is inherently wrong with us, that we need to be repaired or transformed into a version of ourselves that is more palatable or acceptable. When you...
